valentines

valentines... here it comes again..

what's bad about it??.... NOTHING!!!
its just that i really find it weird whenever this day comes
in each year, people tends to be extra...hmmm... what's the word??!!!
CORNY? CHEESY? whatever..

i dont know about you guys but there's something about
St. Valentine's day that make other people go extra Ga-Ga
over their significant other..

but here's my take on it, i personally do not think that spending
this heart's day with someone who you think is special to you like
your BF or GF, ka-ON, ka-UM (M.U)is the only way you can enjoy
valentines..

im not trying to sound bitter here.. i also have spent my valentine's
with my partner discreetly, however, i also went out with my friends during
the night.. i greeted my mom, i sent e-mails to friends abroad,
and even texted those long lost friends from high school and college.

my point is, dont make valentines as an excuse for you not to enjoy it
especially when you're single.. there's a lot for you to do on this day
alone.. come think of it this way.. when you are in a relationship,
you tend to neglect friends who you havent been with
and things you havent done in along while...

then why not do those things, and call these people and spent time
with them, have a little chit-chat over a cup of coffee in starbucks
or watch movies together in your portable dvd.. instead of
crying over and cursing your Ex, because he/she ruined the day for
you..hey, its not the end of the world..

spending time with yourself is the most fulfilling task one could
do for valentines... think of yourself first, pamper it...
and be happy..

after all how one person can love you, if you yourself wont learn
to love the real you..

just a thought!!!